Are you feeling frustrated?
Kids don’t want to come for visitation?
They don’t want to talk to you on the phone?
Kids tell you you are mean and they don’t like your new girlfriend?
They call you a bully?
But when they are forced to go see you and you have lots of promises of presents
they are happy as a pig in shit?
Does all of this sound familiar brother?
Are you convinced your ex wife is making the kids hate you?
Don’t blame the ex, don’t blame some pro-pedophiliac kiddie loving syndrome!
No, you need to blame yourself and NO ONE ELSE!
Blame yourself for loving golf more than your kids, all those times you didn’t show up for soccer games let alone parent-teacher conferences! Yelling at your kids or spouse to “Shut the f*** up!”because the game was on.
Blame yourself because you left ALL of the child rearing up to your wife but
YOU took the credit when someone complimented you on their behavior.
Blame yourself for putting your new girlfriend before your kids and making them feel like second best. Blame yourself for putting yourself first all of those years because the kids saw it and knew it.
The reason your kids don’t want to see you or be with you is because
of YOU! Nothing else.
AND NO AMOUNT OF SNAKE OIL CAN CHANGE THAT SHIT!